She tried sitting him down and telling him his behaviour is not okay. He just got his dinosaur and starting gnawing on it. It is ridiculous that she is concerned. I told her that "our son is being a 3 year old and i am sorry to break it you, he is in fact not a sociopath". She got upset and said she just had his best interests in mind.The issues arises when I don't do the "traditional" stuff. Her friends tell me that I don't treat her like she deserves to be treated. I think this is because she is widely regarded as the most pretty/beautiful friend in the group. My wife is really pretty (not trying to brag, but this context is important, IMO)All this upsets my wife and she thinks I'm an unreasonable ass hole, she feels because she organised childcare she had a right to invite who she wants from her family to our house to help out, but I get the impression because she didn't run it by me because she knew I'd take an issue with it and that she brought the argument on herself by ...This isn't a financial thing. We live very comfortably even without her pulling all these extra hours. ... So, AITA for telling my wife that if she wants time to decompress and general time for herself then she shouldn't volunteer to work so much? She is convinced I am the AH here. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically.This is my take away as well. OP isn’t a parental figure at all and not to interfere with raising SD how BM wants. Because that’s the boundary BM set. Ok cool. It makes sense to change the schedule so SD isn’t in a toxic environment. But OP should have been consulted first because this dramatically changes things for everyone. OP and SD ...Sep 27, 2023 · I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her. Redirecting to /r/AmItheAsshole/comments/16zd156/aita_for_telling_my_wife_she_isnt_doing_enough_to/k3f1qey/.I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her.She complained how everyone else enjoyed her wedding but her as a bride didn't even get to dance more than twice. I told her it's her fault and she shouldn't bring the kids in the …I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I'm a princess too'. I told her no, you're an adult, not a princess. I'll make you one, but you're an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said "dad, mom is a princess too.". I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn't want to have to explain to her.She's had these cats since she was a young child, that alone devastated her. She told me, "I don't want to turn 18, I don't want to celebrate my birthday.". I picked the argument back up with my wife at that point. I said, "Our daughter isn't moving out until she decides on her own terms because she is more important than you or ...AITA for telling my wife "good thing I don't have to worry about men flirting with you." First and foremost, it wasn't meant to be an insult. However, that's how my wife took it. This came up after my wife was telling me about one of her coworkers affair, and them getting caught.AITA for telling my wife she should be thankful my daughter only called the cops and didn't press charges on her? I've been with my wife for 4 years. I have a 20 year old daughter and she and my wife were never able to form a strong bond and one of the reasons for that is distance. ... My wife's car isn't working and has been in the garage for ...YTA. Your daughter sure sounds gifted to me but I guess it depends on your definition of "gifted.". Your daughter is smart, hard working and lucky enough to have a mother who tutored her in math and physics to gain her an extra edge. Her knowledge counts even if she had to work at it instead of being born knowing.(AITA) forum, the 33-year-old man, known only by the username u/ThrowraWork46874, wondered: "AITA for telling my wife she embarrassed me by bringing a meal to my work?"Juliet said that she shouldn't have to get a new dress. She kept trash talking this girl. I finally told her "It's a dress. Your feelings are valid but you need to stop being so dramatic and let it go.". This upset her and she left the room in tears. I tried talking to her about it but she stayed in her room.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) shouting at my cousin for taking my clothes and telling her that she isn't skinny, so stop taking my stuff. (2) I yelled at a child despite being much older, and may have worsened her insecurities or got mad at her for her coping mechanism.I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her.AITA for telling my wife to cut her losses and focus on our family? My wife and I have 4 kids. She has Noah (12) and Ellie (9) from a previous relationship and we have Rose (4) and Jackson (9 months) together. A couple things important to mention is that my wife has another kid, Ava (14), also with her ex, that lives with her sister and that ...I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I'm a princess too'. I told her no, you're an adult, not a princess. I'll make you one, but you're an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said "dad, mom is a princess too.". I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn't want to have to explain to her.When I came out, my mother was absolutely devastated. She said terrible things at first, and we had a rough couple of years. But she never let me doubt that she loved me, and over time she came to accept me. She is no longer homophobic; she’s close to my wife; and she and I are closer than we ever have been. My mom’s also getting older.AITA for telling my wife she should be thankful my daughter only called the cops and didn't press charges on her? I've been with my wife for 4 years. I have a 20 year old daughter and she and my wife were never able to form a strong bond and one of the reasons for that is distance. ... My wife's car isn't working and has been in the garage for ...My aunt too. She’s now a grandma to 2 little toddlers and is very happy with how her life has turned out. She often tells me stories of my uncle and I love hearing them and she tells them with a smile and with so much love and that’s when I knew she was fine. Sometimes people have one love and that’s ok.Thanks, I'm just used to my culture in which pregnant women have their ass kissed all the time. I understand care, and taking it easy on them when they need help, but ugh, my SIL milked the pregnancy to the point where she'd say shit like if you don't give me what I want I'll miscarry and it'll be your fault.It was rage inducing.Asked my wife to consult me before she tells her parents they can live in our house. 2. It makes me seem like I'm being unreasonable or inhospitable to my in-laws and it upset my wife. Help keep the sub engaging! Don't downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQI was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I'm a princess too'. I told her no, you're an adult, not a princess. I'll make you one, but you're an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said "dad, mom is a princess too.". I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn't want to have to explain to her.Sep 27, 2023 · I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her. I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her.AITA For Telling My Ex Wife That She Was The One Who Ruined Our Daughter Birthday Not Our Son. Author admin Posted on October 8, 2023 October 8, 2023 Categories AITA Post navigation. Previous Previous post: AITAH For Choosing My Son Over My Boyfriend. Next Next post: AITA A M Father Of A Child During Affair 12 Years Ago.She said that kids make messes, and if I can't deal with that then I shouldnt be a father. That I was horrid to say she does nothing when she takes care of a 5 year old while I'm away. It stopped after a while, because Theo came inside from where he was playing in the garden, but I got told to sleep on the couch.Today we're reading answers to Ask Reddit question "What is your best financial life hack?"Here on the Auido Reddit YouTube channel, we read stories from r/t...I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her.Tell him how you feel, how frustrated you are over her actions to try to be your mother when she's not. Tell him and tell her she needs to stop interfering with your relationship with your mother. Otherwise when you turn 18 which will be very soon. I assume, You can tell them that they will never see you again.My wife goes to comfort her, and then later she leaves. At the end of it my wife is super angry with me for saying that, that I should have said hey Cathy looks like you had too much to drink or something else. I told my wife, that Kathy (btw this is not her real name) works a corporate job she has had training on this and that she knows better.When I came out, my mother was absolutely devastated. She said terrible things at first, and we had a rough couple of years. But she never let me doubt that she loved me, and over time she came to accept me. She is no longer homophobic; she’s close to my wife; and she and I are closer than we ever have been. My mom’s also getting older.So I'm (29M) and my gf (ex- now I suppose 43F), walked out on me last night after having an argument about my opinion on how she should raise her son. He's 9 yo and has no relationship with his father. Here's a bit of backstory: She was in a LTR with her child's dad with whom she had the son, prior to meeting me. Me (35m), my wife (34f), and our two kids (3 and 5) live in a VHCOL city. I made about 5x as much as my wife, so we do pretty well. If my income were the same as my wifes we would not be able to afford to live in our city. My job is pretty low stress, about 35ish hours a week with the only requirement that I be "on call" for 1 week out each month.NTA. Your wife is a grown ass adult. Your daughter came out as trans and that took courage. Especially at 15. This isn't about your wife. She sounds like a she needs the therapy you've been asking her to get. Kudos for standing up for your daughter.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Instead of telling my sister her Disney obsession is weird I could have tried to show her other vacation options that aren't Disney themed and why those are great.STEP. It's factually accurate to say that you're not really sisters, and literally accurate from how your stepsisters have treated you. NTA. Even were she 100% biologically your "real sister" she has not demonstrated any of the traits you expect from someone who expects to be treated as a real sister.--POST LINKS IN DESCRIPTION--Welcome to Reddista 🎥, where we dive into the endless world of Reddit 🌎 and bring you the most entertaining and interesting co...Two weeks ago, MIL texted my wife on a Thursday to let her know she would be coming the next day. Not the most respectful or convenient thing to give one day notice in my opinion, but not the end of the world. She also told my wife that she plans on spending 2-3 weeks with us. Again, that seems like a long visit and a bit presumptuous on MIL's ...NTA. She actually may be more defensive and outraged because honestly she knows she isn't doing what she should be. I recommend sitting down with her and calmly discuss the issue directly. And both work towards a solution like getting outside child care if she really is so burnt out she can't be bothered to wake up even when the kids are up.She went straight to desperation. You suck much less. You probably shouldn't have said she's not your aunt's real child, even if you're just making a point. Maybe something closer to: "my affection for my fiancée's children is just as real as your mom's affection for you" might have been a more gentle way to put it.AITA for telling my wife that she isn't a princess? For the past several months, she has been eerily acting like a child. I understand that she's playing with our daughter, but it comes across as weird to me to the degree that she plays the role. Our daughter wanted a mini pizza and so she asked me to make her one.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1 telling my wife that she will have to wait to go back to work 2 I went back on our initial agreement and wasn't committing to somethingYTA. You're deliberately and systematically undermining your wife. At the same time, you're teaching your daughter that she can do anything she wants. You're going to end up with a broken marriage and a wild teenager with a huge sense of entitlement. YTA to both your wife and your daughter, big time.AITA for telling my wife she should be thankful my daughter only called the cops and didn't press charges on her? I've been with my wife for 4 years. I have a 20 year old daughter and she and my wife were never able to form a strong bond and one of the reasons for that is distance. ... My wife's car isn't working and has been in the garage for ...About Press Copyright Contact us Creators Advertise Developers Terms Privacy Press Copyright Contact us Creators Advertise Developers Terms PrivacyShe said he used offensive language (he texted "stop bothering me woman" which she says is sexist) towards her and I need to support her. I said she needs to stop talking to my dad, not me. I'll support her not talking to him. My wife said I am disrespecting her, that I won't listen when she says she needs help and let my family treat her ...I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her.She came to me to talk about how she was upset at a client today. Apparently the client was listening to a conversation between my wife and another staff member, and caught on to the fact that my wife has Native American ancestry. Evidently, she spent the rest of the day harassing my wife and telling her to go back to her reservation.Let the kids have their fun. My wife says she’s just trying to get them in the Christmas spirit so they can enjoy and I told her “No all you’re doing is ruining it for them.”. Now I’m an asshole because she says she’s the one who’s been trying to make it all perfect and trying to show the kids how to properly decorate.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Instead of telling my sister her Disney obsession is weird I could have tried to show her other vacation options that aren't Disney themed and why those are great.Juliet said that she shouldn't have to get a new dress. She kept trash talking this girl. I finally told her "It's a dress. Your feelings are valid but you need to stop being so dramatic and let it go.". This upset her and she left the room in tears. I tried talking to her about it but she stayed in her room.Our daughter wanted a mini pizza and so she asked me to make her one. I was, and then my wife said me too because I’m a princess too. I told her no, you’re an adult not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad mom is a princess too.” Sep 27, 2023 · For the past several months, she has been eerily acting like a child. I understand that she’s playing with our daughter, but it comes across as weird to me to the degree that she plays the role. Our daughter wanted a mini pizza and so she asked me to make her one. I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. AITA for telling my wife to cut her losses and focus on our family? My wife and I have 4 kids. She has Noah (12) and Ellie (9) from a previous relationship and we have Rose (4) and Jackson (9 months) together. A couple things important to mention is that my wife has another kid, Ava (14), also with her ex, that lives with her sister and that ...For the past several months, she has been eerily acting like a child. I understand that she's playing with our daughter, but it comes across as weird to me to the degree that she plays the role. Our daughter wanted a mini pizza and so she asked me to make her one. I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I'm a princess too'."AITA (Am I the A-hole) for telling my wife that she isn't a princess?" u/Efficient_Expert_686 For the past several months, she has been eerily acting like a child. I understand that she's playing with our daughter, but it comes across as weird to me to the degree that she plays the role.AITA for telling my wife that I wasn't going to change my daughter's diapers. Me and my wife have been together for 6 yrs and have a 1 1/2 yr old daughter. My daughter drinks milk on the regular basis. 2 weeks ago, she started getting explosive diarrhea, the one where it soaks through her clothes and diaper. I told my wife that I felt that our ...1. YTA. She knows she isn't literally a princess, she is acting, for the kid. This is basically the equivalent of you go to a live production of Blues Clues and yelling "You're not a real dog! You're just a person in a dog suit".True. Tell you wife maybe when they move then you guys can prioritize yourself until then the kids need to come first, always. I mean maybe a day in the week sure, having some me time, a day for each of you. But dropping off a kid 3 hours at a place she doesnt personally know anyone is kinda irresponsible. NTA OP. NTA.Long story short: my wife and I gave us the promise that whenever one of us drives alone somewhere he or she would tell the other one when he or she arrived at the destination. My wife drove off today to go to a lake with some guys. One of them gets a ride from his home to the lake.Mar 28, 2023 · Well, here's a fun dilemma for you: a dad was so 'off-put' by his wife's role-play with their young daughter, he came to Reddit for support. Instead, he got something else. "AITA (Am I the A-hole) for telling my wife that she isn’t a princess?" u/Efficient_Expert_686 writes: For the past several months, she has been eerily acting like a child. I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her.Pre pregnancy, my wife was diagnosed with general anxiety disorder and depression, and in the days since birthing our baby girl, is most definitely experiencing post-partum depression. Our first child, our son, looks very much so like her. In fact, if you look at baby photos of my wife, they look almost exactly like our son's baby photos.Maybe what your wife is really trying to tell you is she has nowhere to go, or nothing to do. Telling her to make plans doesn't help if she has nothing to plan for. Find out if this is the problem, and if it is, find a way to help her get back into a life outside of her home. 16. PopeAdrian37th • 1 day ago.In the heat of the quarrel, the OP told his wife that his job has to come before hers as it brings them way more money. A quarrel broke out, but the husband could not stand it and just left the house and went to his office. Meanwhile, his wife called him and started arguing again. In the heat of the moment, the OP blurted out something like ...I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I’m a princess too'. I told her no, you’re an adult, not a princess. I’ll make you one, but you’re an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said “dad, mom is a princess too.”. I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn’t want to have to explain to her.I'm your niece your have to treat me like a princess. You (she's talking to me) have to ask me to be your god-daughter, and when you get married I'm am going to be your best-woman and your future daughter is going to have the same middle name as me. And you're going to take me on a world tour and lavish me with gifts.For the past several months, she has been eerily acting like a child. I understand that she's playing with our daughter, but it comes across as weird to me to the degree that she plays the role. Our daughter wanted a mini pizza and so she asked me to make her one. I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I'm a princess too'.NTA. Your wife cannot swim in the ocean and not get wet. If she wants you to help with the children and do all the things that a father would do then she has to also give you the ability to punish the kids when they screw up. If she wants to be the sole parent then you don't have to help with any of this stuff.NTA Tell your dad the same thing I tell my mom when she complains about me not talking to my sisters, "She/they made a choice about my place in her/their life years ago. I'm not going to waste energy on someone who excluded me." Even if your sister felt it was best for you to not be there, she could have talked to you before hand.NTA. If she doesn't have a job then her next employer will question the gap in employment. She can take it and tell her next employer after this job that it was temporary due to Covid and she needed to make ends meet. She has too high of expectations during a ruff time for everyone. 95.I was, and then my wife said 'me too, because I'm a princess too'. I told her no, you're an adult, not a princess. I'll make you one, but you're an adult. She laughed nervously and said ok, never mind. Our daughter heard and said "dad, mom is a princess too.". I just said hmm hmm, agreeing; but I didn't want to have to explain to her.Me (45M) and my wife (47F) have three kids (18F, 16M, 12F). All three of them are creative types. My eldest son draws and does some 3Dmodeling and does commissions and was making an ok amount until this game developer commissioned a bunch of assets from him, the guy paid a lot and the exposure has meant that his commission has constantly been full and he's making a lot more.Yes, ATA Put yourself in her shoes. If she were to say that to you, you’d probably feel bad about yourse, I ended up telling her that her volunteer "work" isn't real work because she isn't getting paid. 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